Is this me?

1 Mi libertad no se termina cuando me uno a alguien.

2 Como mamá, no educo machos ni sumisas.

3 Nunca me quedaré callada si algo no me gusta.

4 No aceptaré ningún tipo de violencia en mi contra.

5 Nunca me traicionaré dejando de ser quien soy.

6 Nadie, ni si quiera mi pareja, tocará mi cuerpo si yo no quiero.

7 Trabajaré para no depender económicamente de alguien.

8 La mujeres quedadas no existen, yo decido si casarme o no y cuando.

9 No haré sola el trabajo del hogar y eso no me hace ser mala mujer.

10 No aguantaré a ningún hombre, sólo para que mis hijos tengan un padre.

Sun
Beach
Tanning
Exercise
Sex with the right person

Music
Dancing
My job
Handsome doctors
Chocolate

Books
Hanging out with my friends
Hot bubbly tubs
Sunsets
Mind games

Fire in the fireplace
Rain in the rooftop
My blackberry
Kissing
Laughing

Don’t think about yesterday.
Don’t worry about tomorrow.
Just make it through this day.

Making through each day and owning each day in the best way we possibly can should be the ultimate goal that we set for ourselves on a daily basis.

Life is full of uncertainty and a lot of times it simply won’t go in the manner we plan it to. We have to be willing to forget about the days past, and not put so much concern into what we might be in the future.

We have only one chance to make each day the best day, so take advantage of each breath you are given and each step you advance. Take time to think about where you come from but never get to lost in thinking about parts in time that you may no longer relive or parts in time that you have not lived yet.

Seize every moment, and be grateful and appreciative for every opportunity by working as hard as you possibly can in every moment, while also remembering that what you do each day should be a part of who you want to become.

Well, here it is. Eventually, you forget it all. First you forget everything you learned - the dates of wars and pythagorean theorem. You especially forget everything you didn’t really learn, but just memorized the night before. You forget the names of all but one or two of your favorite teachers, and eventually you forget those too. You forget your junior year class schedule and where you used to sit and your best friend’s home phone number and the lyrics to that song you must have played a million times. And eventually, but slowly, you forget your humiliations - even the ones that seemed indelible, just fade away. You forget who was cool and who was not, who was pretty, smart, athletic and not. Who went to a good college, who threw the best parties, who had the most friends. You forget all of them. Even the ones you said you loved, and the ones you actually did. They’re the last to go. And then, once you’ve forgotten enough, you love someone else…

In order to be proud of who you are, one must figure out who “they” are. Society today tells us that there are certain ways to gain notoriety and popularity and many people instead of presenting themselves to the world as the person that they really are, choose to present themselves to the world as similar to the images of people who are known as possible, in order to gain a false sense of confidence and self esteem.

Real confidence and real self esteem stems from presenting yourself to the world as the person that you really are, and going after the things in your heart that you know will help change the world in order to make it a better place. Being proud of who you are is being yourself on a daily basis, and showing the world that despite what popular opinion says and does, being yourself is the biggest most honest statement anyone can ever present to the world.

Love can make you hold on to things you shouldn’t… but who are we to know any better?

Sometimes when we love we are stuck loving someone who has no desire to change, or no desire to work things out with us in an effort to make things better or to keep the relationship on a track of growth and fulfillment. There comes a point in some relationships that we must realize the only option that we have to live a good life is to let go of what is weighing us down…

Sometimes a love must be broken and let go of, so that both hearts won’t have to keep suffering. Though it’s true that love makes you want to hold on to things that you shouldn’t, it is up to you to seek what is truly in your heart to know that you deserve greatness in every aspect of your life, including your love life.

There is a huge difference between settling for a person because of the love shared in the past, and loving someone because they are who is meant for you.

Never be afraid to let go. 

Señor,
Dame fe para seguir adelante…
Grandeza de espíritu para perdonar…
Paciencia para comprender y esperar…
Voluntad para no caer…
Fuerza para levantarme si estoy caído…
Amor para dar…
Dame lo que necesito y no lo que quiero…
Haz de mi un instrumento de tu voluntad…
Por último, acompañame y déjame saber que así es,
Amen
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